Being thankful with an ungrateful heart....
So this is me....Thank You Lord for the hot shower. Then a
couple of days later.....Thank You for a little bit of water to use for a
shower! Then after another week....thank You for being able to at least wash my
feet tonight! Then blissfully it rains but now my thankful prayer goes like
this....thank you for my dear husband heating water for me from the village
well because our water stinks something unbearably!
Yip, that's me, thanking with an unthankful heart! Because
even though it all sounds very grateful it was not. In my heart i was adding a
"even if..." each time.
I don't want to thank God for all these plans we can
make...all i want is a hassle free shower! But i keep on trying. So i trudge on
saying thank you's and trying to see the blessings in the hard times all the
while wishing that they would just go away and leave me in peace. To just get a
break of looking hard for things to be thankful for.....
And this continues over years and in all areas...Thank you
that I can make new rose bushes even after the termites destroyed more than 2/3
of my roses...Thank you for helping us get over malaria even if we all had to
fly out with huge costs to get better and still have debt....Thank you that i
have hair even though it went all grey and white before 40....Thank you for a
school room even though we have not been in there for a long time because we were
all sick for weeks on end. And so it goes on and on....making the right sounds,
going through the motions but nothing touches my heart. Thank You, even
if...You did 't show up (how i wanted You to!)
And i grow weary because this a weary business trying to put
up a brave face while inside i am not-so-slowly falling apart. And my thoughts
turn dark and i see very little light. Just me trying to be thankful churning
out meaningless phrases, the pressure building up inside me, this forced
thankfulness. A thankful volcano about to erupt if you ever saw one!
I wouldn't say i am an optimist, or if i ever was, this
country sure cured me of that! I am also not a pessimist - although i am
getting closer to being one! I would say i am realist....and living out here it
has helped. But even a realist can be worn down after ever so many trials. I am
close to taking flight like Elijah, off into the desert to lie down under the
broom tree and say. Enough, Lord! Take my life. I have had enough.
Thank You....but....or Thank You, even if it was not how i
thought it would be....
My conditions were causing my downfall. Instead of being
thankful i was becoming resentful. Sarcastically wondering what on earth i
could delve out to be thankful for next....and with every thought falling
deeper into the pit.
I had high hopes how God should bless me and my house and
garden. Not many of them came true and it was getting to me, these
self-thought-out expectations of what i wanted from God. The other thing that
was starting to happen was that God became very small and weak in my opinion.
He did not intervene in Might and Power as i dreamed up, instead He gave me the
Still Power to continue each day, even showing me things to be grateful for!
But blind old me did not see.
When Elijah went out to the desert and lay down to die God
woke him up, gave him food and send him off deeper into the desert to speak to
him. There was a great and powerful wind, but the Lord was not in the wind,
there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. There was a
fire, but once again, the Lord was not in the fire. After the fire there came a
gentle whisper and there was God.
How many times do i expect the powerful wind, the roaring
earthquake or the raging fire only to encounter the Gentle Whisper and then be
disappointed? Do i sit still and listen? And even more important, take heed?
Just to drive home my point i read about Paul's life. Pretty
amazing taken into account it was he who said Rejoice! And Be Thankful in
everything! Here is his probably inconclusive list....
Imprisoned, flogged, left for dead, beaten, stoned,
shipwrecked x3!, spent a day and night on the open sea, constantly on the move,
in danger from rivers, bandits, own people, Gentiles, in danger in cities, the
country, the sea, in danger from false brothers. Laboring and toiling away,
going without sleep, hungry and thirsty, been cold and naked. And then he ends
all of this by saying "That is why for Christ's sake, I delight in
weakness, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when
i am weak, then I am strong."
If i look back over the past few years, i have great and
many reasons to jump for joy and be delighted on a daily basis! I could write
my own very long list of difficulties! But sadly i am not. I want the easy
life, the good things piling up and i don't want any hardships or insults or
difficulties. I hang my head in shame and i know I wasted all these years of
hardships and i didn't grow at all. I wanted to be strong and not weak. I
wanted the easy way. I wanted God to act like a genie and swoop in and make it
all better or right or good or perfect.
Meantime back at the ranch.... :) God was trying to teach me
to trust Him in all the difficulties. Trying to teach me that this is a fallen
world but He will work out things for my good. Trying to teach me that when i
am at my weakest He is strongest in me, helping me, guiding me, giving plans,
etc! I need to be dependent on Him and not myself. Only then can i cope, really
cope with it all. Sigh, thank You Lord for your patience.
Bella, learning hard lessons.
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